INF has exclusive photos of of Bachelorette Ashley Hebert filming the show’s final episode in Fiji with Ben Flanjnik (who didn’t win her heart, but may have gotten in her pants) and J.P. Rosenbaum, who got engaged to Ashley. Though both guys proposed to her, Ashley was clearly way more into J.P. You can see it when you do a side-by-side comparison of our pictures – there’s just way more distance between Ashley and Ben, and she seems stiff and uncomfortable.

A lot of the show’s fans are up in arms that Ashley even let Ben propose to her. Her rationale? She didn’t know what to say! Ashley wrote on her blog, “‘As Ben walked up, I did not know what to say, or how to act…’” Certainly made things even more awkward than they already were. Still, she and J.P. are pretty cute together, despite what’s got to have been the rockiest Bachelorette season ever.