Maria Shriver isn’t having a good week. Perhaps that’s putting it mildly. Basically her life really sucks at the moment. In case you’re living under a rock, it was revealed recently that her husband of 25 years, Arnold Schwarzenegger, had a love child with the house maid, Patty Baena. Maria just learned that she and Arnold actually attended the christening of this child in 1998. Of course, Maria had no idea who that child really was at the time! Another photos reveals Arnold teaching the boy to play golf in a very fatherly role.

We caught up with Maria, exclusively, as she was heading to the gym. That’s the perfect place to take out frustrations! The other is in the divorce lawyers office and we’re sure some big time discussions will be happening there. But that’s later. Maria wasn’t wearing her wedding ring for obvious reasons. The end of this marriage is going to cost Arnold in the neighborhood of $200 million!

Shriver recently called on friend Bono of U2 and had lunch with him at the Ivy. Who knew they were friends. Apparently Bono was able to dispel some good advice for the troubled first lady. Maria is holding her head high. As high as she can for the moment. We’re sure she’ll get through this. Good luck!